I haven’t dated in a few years so this is kind of new to me again.
I work as a housekeeper at a hotel, and he works front desk. I’m a shy person, but I am very friendly and I get along with everyone. He’s very boisterous and outgoing. He started working at the hotel about 3 months ago. I noticed him staring at me a lot. When I laughed at his jokes, he would blush. He started giving me the 1st floor, so I was walking past him all day, and gave me an easier work load. He also started taking his lunch with us, and it seemed like I was running into him a lot. I thought he liked me so I tried adding him on Facebook, but he didn’t accept. That left me confused. I tried to be less shy. I made small talk, smiled lots even flirted subtly. But he actually seemed to get more nervous. One day, he gave me less hours so would be done when his shift ended. I thought maybe he was going to ask me out after work or something. I could hear him pacing in the other room, but nothing ever happened. The very next day, he was more nervous than ever around me. As he was leaving, my coworker joked that he should ask out the new girl. He laughed and made a joke about it. My coworker said he should date me then. I laughed nervously. He didn’t say anything and left quickly with his head down. So I’ve been waiting for him to ask me out, but the last 2 times we worked together, he’s acted pretty normal. I’m just confused. I like him a lot, but he’s sending mixed signals and I’m really unsure. What should I do?
