[April Masini, your AskApril]

You’re putting the horse before the cart. 😮 You’re deciding how far to go, sexually, before you’ve even HAD a second date. Just focus on getting to know him and having a nice time together, and if there’s a kiss at the end of the date, great. For some people, this advice would be different, but you seem to have a lot of uncertainty about dating, so it’s important you go slowly so you can process what’s happening. 😉

I think it’s time for you to buy and read Think & Date Like A Man, a book I wrote for women who want to win the dating game! You can purchase it for $8.99 online at this link: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url]. 😀

Hope that helps. Good luck!

[rachelxgraham2]

sorry to be such a pain but he texted me friday and asked me when we are hanging out again..i suggested saturday and asked if he was free. he said “actually yeah i think so” and then i said “well if you have nothing going on we can hang out tomorrow night i just work until 8” and he said “sounds good” so on saturday around 4pm i texted him saying “hey does tonight still work for you?” he answered 3 hours later at 7pm and said “no lol sry i just got out of work sry for the late response i have a paper to write ill let you know if im done early” so i said “ok thats fine” and he said “im trying to finish quickly” so i said “dont worry about it your paper is more important lol” and he said “i feel bad i wrote 5 pages already lol” and i said “lol dont feel bad do what you gotta do” then i never heard from him again sat night, or yesterday, or today so far. i’m so confused..if he doesn’t wanna hang out or he’s not interested why ask me “so when are we hanging out again?” i don’t know what to think anymore..he cancelled..he should reschedule with me right?

what do you think is going on? maybe he really had stuff to do? or is he just not interested? idk what could have changed in a day..

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You’re not a pain, but you don’t seem to understand my advice as I’ve written you many times here already about not chasing him. 😳 It’s very basic to dating and getting the guy. I think you need to read Think & Date Like A Man. Here’s the link: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url] I recommended in my last post that you read this book, and I hope you will because it’s going to help you. 😀

[rachelxgraham2]

i didn’t chase him though..he asked me when we were hanging out again..i’m just asking does it seem like he’s not interested and was making an excuse when he cancelled last minute. i mean if he’s not interested why ask me when we’re hanging out again.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Buy and read Think & Date Like A Man, [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url]. It’s only $8.99 and it will help you a lot more than I can here — in fact you’ll understand what “chasing him” means if you read it. [i]Plus[/i] it supports the free advice I give you and others! 😀

If you buy it and read it and STILL have questions, I’m more than happy to answer them here, but for now, buy the book I’ve recommended, read it, and see if that doesn’t help you (I’m sure it will.).

[rachelxgraham2]

i will read the book but i seriously need help with this..i’m really confused. i spend a lot of time on this site and i appreciate all your help. but i really need help with this right now. if you don’t think he’s interested, then whatever that’s fine. just need an opinion based on what has happened last. thank you.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

[quote]Buy and read Think & Date Like A Man, https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html. It’s only $8.99 and it will help you a lot more than I can here — in fact you’ll understand what “chasing him” means if you read it. Plus it supports the free advice I give you and others!

If you buy it and read it and STILL have questions, I’m more than happy to answer them here, but for now, buy the book I’ve recommended, read it, and see if that doesn’t help you (I’m sure it will.).[/quote]

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