[lolie]

So i have been dating my bf for 3 yrs. Our relationship has been up and down for the last yr or so. Ever sinec his sister came i noticed that he’s behaviour is different. And he does not hid but keeps some stuff. Our sex life is not that great. He says no everytime and he says he’s bored its the same routine. I have tried to make our sex life have spice. But he never seems to be interested.I offered an alternative to go to a hotel, since we both live at home and he still said no. He always uses excuses all the time. I dont feel fulfilled. We both in our early 20s. I have decided to leave it. Since he says i’m annoying him, when i addressed the issue.

Everytime i ask him to do something he does not do. But when it comes to other people he does which i dont understand. We’ve had the argument he then says i’m throwing a temper tantrum. Which i never shouted at him i only spoke to him in a calm tone. After the argument he gave me a ring.

I’m starting to get fed up with him, nothing is progessing. I don’t want to nag him anymore. I’m starting to lose intereset in him. He feels more like a mate than more.
I dont know what to do.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

It sounds like you’re ready to move on, but inertia is holding you back. I’m giving you official permission to find Mr. Right! 😆 If after three years you’re losing interest, your sex life isn’t great, and he’s not that interested in it, and you feel like you’ve become a nag, it sounds like he isn’t the guy for you. You just need to muster the energy to move on. Do it today.

I hope that helps.

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[lolie]

I have spoken to him about it. It seems there is a lot of issues. I said to him that i cant be doing the same routine day in day out. if he cant spend 5 pounds just to go out once every 6 months. Then forget it. He responds by saying that he understands what guys say about having money then comes the girl. He then goes on to say, i rather have a one night stand than have a relationship as i have nothing to offer a girl. I have decided to end it by his moment he did not bother saying lets try to make it work. I broke it off with him, I’m finding it really hard to get over him.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You did the right thing. 😉 You’re going to be a lot happier with Mr. Right — and this guy was not Mr. Right. Spend your time wisely, now and prepare to date smart by reading Think & Date Like A Man, [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url], a book I wrote for women who want to find, get and keep Mr. Right. It will help direct you to date wisely this time around and not waste time with the wrong guys. Read it! 😀

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