[natellaine]

Here’s the story.

6years ago(2008), during my high school days, i have this “[b]First Love[/b]“. But after the high school graduation(2009), we never see each other.

After a long time not seeing each other, last june28,2014.. FINALLY! I got a connection with him thru facebook. We chat for at least 2hours and he asks me for a date. I never refused so i go date with him.

We went to Starbucks and drink coffee there. After that,he asks me if i want to watch movie with him. and i said yes. While we were inside the cinema, he wants to hold my hand, he keeps on grabbing my hand, i was so nervous that time, what i did was.. I REFUSED to hold his hands! I dont know if he gets upset. But i was so nervous that time.

After watching movies, he drives me home. That whole night, im still thinking about the moment he wants to hold my hand. At first, [b]HE NEVER TOLD ME HE LIKES/ LOVE ME[/b]. But what i am thinking is “[b]Why did he wants to hold my hand? Does he like/love me too?[/b]

Until now, im still thinking about it. and i still love him so much. I am here to ask for you advice or opinions about the “[b]holding hands matter[/b]“. I know it sounds silly but i just want to get refreshed about it. Thank you for having the time reading this message!! I’ll wait for your answer.. 🙂

[April Masini, your AskApril]

What is the question you have about holding hands?

[natellaine]

Thank you for the reply Ms. April 🙂 I’m a little bit confuse about that “holding hands” matter. Do you think he likes me just because he wants to hold my hand? I dont want to assume or expect, but as i’ve known him for so long, he’s not that kind of a guy that holds a girl’s hand without any reason.. He’s so “torpe” (a guy that doesn’t know how to approach the girl he likes.)

I hope you’ll read my reply again,. Thank you so much!!

[April Masini, your AskApril]

[quote]Do you think he likes me just because he wants to hold my hand? [/quote]

No. It sounds like it’s the opposite — I think he wants to hold your hand because he likes you. 😉 If you’re not ready to date, that’s fine. You shouldn’t push yourself. But if you do want to date, you should expect that men will want to hold hands with you, kiss you — and more. Your job, since you’re new to dating, is to make sure you want to be dating — and that you want to be dating the person you are dating. If you’re not sure about him, then slow things down, and be clear on what you’re doing and why. If you want to slow down the dating process because you’re not sure he’s someone you want to be spending your time with, then you should do so. But if you do want to continue dating him, holding hands with him is a way to convey affection.

I hope that helps! 🙂

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[lindasaw358]

It’s easy to hold hands. And don’t put different meaning.
He just want you to trust him or give you good feeling inside.
Don’t trust to easy. Observe him.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Happy New Year! Let me know how things are going for you. 😉

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