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I Bee-Lieve

Fizzling physical spark and interest in other guys…HELP!

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    I’ve been with my boyfriend for over a year, and he is a year younger than me. I’m in college and he is finishing high school. He’s a fantastic person and my best friend.

    Our relationship progessed naturally. We frequently held hands, hugged, kissed, and we got as far as making out several times. The problem is that in the past month or so, I haven’t felt the same. I loathe the thought of making out with him ever again, and even kissing him is awkward. I almost feel…disgusted at the thought of kissing or making out with him.

    Since I’ve been in college, I’ve been meeting fantastic people, including guys. Each of them is good looking, and I can easily picture myself being with them and having the physical connection my current relationship is lacking.

    I don’t know what to do. I feel like the only thing I love about my boyfriend is his personality, and that isn’t exactly good future-building material. I know he could provide a good future for me, but I’ms till young! I feel like I’m wasting my time with someone when I could be having the dating life I never had in high school. I’ve always wanted to come out of my shell, flirt, and experience new types of relationships. But is it worth compromising the trust of a good person?

    Help would be appreciated,

    dotcomm3

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    Ask April Masini
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    You’ve outgrown your boyfriend, and just in time. He’s in high school, you’re in college: start dating guys you meet in college. You already know what to do — I can hear it in your post. You just need me to give you a little push in the right direction! 😆

    Break up gracefully and appreciate your soon to be ex-boyfriend for everything he was to you and is to the world. But then move on and enjoy your life. There’s so much ahead of you!

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