[Anonymous]

Hi,

Thank you for this great site, I wanted to get some help from you because your website is great and your advices are wonderful and I won’t be long. Here is the deal:

I like her very very much, and I don’t know if she likes me back. We hang out, have fun but she gets me confused sometimes. I hang out with a male friend of hers all the time and she always finds excuses to come at us and join the conversation, even when I am alone she comes to me. She and her male friend don’t like each other, I can guarantee you that. But there is this other guy who she might like. Well, he is taller, more attractive and much better than me and they both express interest for each other. Just like she comes to talk to me, she also goes to him or he goes to her and they talk and I get really jealous. She mentions him sometimes and it might be that she wants to make me jealous. I know that they both feel something for each other, but I also think that she feels something for me. I mean, she finds excuses so many times to come to me, we have a lot in common and I often try to let her indirectly know that I like her. There is one thing though, she is the one who comes to talk to me but I don’t go to her quite often, I fear that sometimes I don’t express my feelings for her. Sometimes I pretend to be down and she comes to talk to me. I really like her and please tell me what you think, do you think that she likes me or him? And also, what should I do to make her like me more than him? Please give me your best advices about how to make her mine. God bless you!

[Ask April Masini]

First of all, yes, she likes you. Second, she probably likes him, too.

Now, here’s what you need to understand about women: You may think he’s better than you, but I’m not sure you really understand what WOMEN think is better. It’s not always the taller, better looking guy who gets the girl! (Look at Larry King, with all due respect. 😆 ) Women love men who are confident, successful and funny.

If you have time and $14.95, you should download my book for men called Date Out of Your League. You can get it here: [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url]. You’ll learn A LOT about how to get the girl and what women want. So if you can, and are so inclined, this is a great (and short) read for you.

So after you read the book and get ALL the details to help you win her over, you need to show how confident you truly are, and ask her out on a date. Ultimately, she’s going to decide who she wants to be with, but if you don’t put yourself out there, and make a play for her, she’ll never know how you feel, and you’ll never get the opportunity to date her! Don’t let him win because you never stepped up your game. Be the winner and be the one who shows her you want to date her.

So get the book, read it, and ask her out. 😀

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