Hey there! I come here today seeking helpful, hopeful advice. My man and I have been together for three months, and I couldn’t be happier. We have also known each other for almost 4 years, 3 1/2 before we made it official. I seem to have come across something that has left me perturbed. And I know everyone is different, has their own quirks/personal issues. He’s not a big people person, and likes his alone time. I’ve had a hard time dealing with this, because I love being around him. He constantly assures me that it’s nothing personal, that’s just how he is. I haven’t had much guidance when it comes to relationships, and told him that I’m doing my best to do the right thing with us. I don’t want him to be frustrated or upset with me. The last thing I want to do is push him away. I know we haven’t been together for long, so I know we’ll come across obstacles and certain things will be hard for me to understand right off. I want this relationship to last and grow, and also for our bond to be strengthened over time. I want him to WANT to spend more time with me, but because he WANTS to, not because I’m pushing him.
