[Anonymous]

Hi,
Just a question. I’m not losing any sleep over it but it bothers me. My ex of three years and I broke up about 6mths ago. It was mutual. We’re both in our late twenties and in the end we broke up because of geographical reasons. We were living somewhere where I was no longer happy and couldn’t stay and he couldn’t leave because of his career. It was quite sudden as I moved away the same day we broke up. I’m okay with it and I can honestly saw him and I were too different in too many ways to make it work. I don’t want him back and just want him to be happy. He’s stayed friends with all of his other exs but me. I don’t understand because I thought we left on good terms and its not like i’m a crazy stalker. I emailed him once, he didn’t answer so I didn’t message again, I can take a hint. Then he messaged me one day about two months ago to say we should catch up and asked for my number, he never called. I know it’s not about me and that relationships don’t always make sense and that I actions speak louder then words but I don’t understand why he still talks to all of his exs but me. I know he does because him and I were friends before we started dating. They still talk to me but no one ever mentions his name around me. I’ve dated since being with him and can say I’m at a point in my life where i’m enjoying being single and just dating. Its a nice change to be honest. Anyways, him and I were basically each others lifes and I just want to have the option to call him when I have a question ie) a recipe he used to have to make the most amazing ribs/bbq sauce of my life. lol

[Ask April Masini]

If I were you I wouldn’t spend much time thinking about this one. You sound like you’re really well adjusted and over the break up. His reasons for not wanting to be in touch with you may be because he loved you so much it hurts to be back in touch again, or maybe he’s freaked out that you left the same day you broke up with him after three years of dating. He may also not be in touch with his other ex-girlfriends now the way you remember him being when you two were dating.

Regardless, don’t worry about him and what he’s doing. You can probably find a great bbq sauce recipe in a cooking magazine! 😆

Hope that helps, and that you’ll check me out on Facebook at this link: [url][/url]. I’d love to see you there.

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