Wait until he comes home to discuss this. 😕 This is a conversation you want to have face to face. Clearly, he’s having sex with other women, and the way you want to approach this is with facts, and ask questions about what you’re not completely sure of — not accuse him or put him in a corner. For instance, you can tell him that the Cialis is gone from the medicine chest. See how he responds. Sometimes you’ll get a lot more information from a statement than a question that “leads the witness” to a response you think is what he will or doesn’t want to say. When you do this, you eliminate the possibility that there may be an answer that will surprise you, so don’t lead him with questions that go down a path you choose. If you do ask a question, make it one that will have an open ended answer. For instance: Why are the Cialis boxes gone?
The reality is that you’re not married, and the commitment you think you have with him isn’t one he shares — or else he does, but he’s someone who isn’t faithful by nature. The cheating isn’t the problem here. It’s the symptom. Your relationship isn’t what you thought it was, and unless, like I said, a man is a chronic liar and cheater, he cheats because of the way it makes him feel — and because he doesn’t feel the way he wants to in the relationship he has with you.
I know you’re anxious to get some relief from this problem, but giving yourself the two weeks until he gets home to think about the relationship, is going to be good for you.
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