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April,
I have recently just started to really date a guy and he is is really nice and treats me well, and all my female friends see how much he cares for me and they tell me, so I know that it has a possibility to turn into a LTR. My problem/concern is that my very close friend is a guy and he have known each other years and he has always been there when I needed someone even more than my family. The guy I am seeing in jealous of my friendship even though he has no reason to be in my opinion because I spend every chance we have together, I don’t talk/text my friend when we are together ect. he always has my undivided attention.. Yes I have had a physical relationship in the past with my friend, but it is not what the friendship is based on and I am a faithful, honest person and have never cheated in a relationship and would never. I believe if you feel the need to cheat then you are not with the rite person. With that being said if I choose to continue into a LT committed relationship would it be the rite thing to end my friendship to make the other guy happy even though I would be losing my best friend??

[April Mașini, your AskApril]

Yes, if you decide to continue dating this guy (or pretty much any other guy), you should end the friendship you have with your former lover. 😕 Most guys you will meet will have trouble with you being such close friends with a former lover. The man in your life will want to be number one — and that means the only man in your life. 😉 And most women will want the same in reverse. My advice is that you choose close friends who are women, and let this friend who you once had a sexual relationship with, go.

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