Hello my name is Aleksandar i was hoping you could help me with a problem i am having in my relationship. Me and my girlfriend met in Cuba this past September we came back to Canada and we continued to talk we are bot attracted to each other. The issue we are having is this, shes been single for a few years so she always depended on herself and was always independent, trusting her own self with issues and problems. I’m very caring and im not saying its always right to do that, i tend to message her once and sometimes she doesn’t reply right away sometimes it takes her an hour or a few hours, she likes to keep herself busy, but when she doesn’t reply for a while i worry that something is wrong so i tend to message her again and sometimes even call her.
What i would like to know about this issue is this, i know i need to give her her space when she asks and i understand we cant talk all day everyday. And she doesn’t like when i do that message her multiple times if she doesnt answer. and like i said she hasn’t had a boyfriend in a few years, so would you say that we arent understanding each other or would u say we need to get used to the fact that, for example my point of view is that i need to get used to when she wants her space and that we cant talk all day everyday and from her point of view is that she needs to get used to that im going to be around and there for her.
I really like this girl and i want this relationship to last please help me keep her by my side
