Since you’re calling him your ex, I assume you broke up with him, and I’m going to also assume that you broke up with him because he’s still seeing his other ex, with whom he has kids. I don’t think that this has anything to do with his children. Lots of guys see their kids from prior relationships without dating the mother of those kids, once they’re broken up, and these guys even go on to remarry other women and have happy marriages. So I think you should take the kids out of the equation — sounds like he’s using them as an excuse to date his other ex.
I don’t know how old you all are, or how long you were dating, how long you’ve been broken up, or how many or how old the kids are — so fill me in if you write with more questions. But…. it does sound like he’s interested in this other woman, and if you want to compete with her for his attention, that’s fair. But if you think he’s always going to go back to her, and he’s shown you this pattern, then you’d probably be better off moving on. 😉
I hope that helps.
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