Hey April,
I’m Gerwin, 23 and I just broke up with my girlfriend Keisha after a year. It was not messy or anything but it hit me way harder than I thought. At first I thought I was fine but now I can’t stop thinking about her and it’s messing with my mood and focus at work. I thought I already moved on from her but no….
I’ve tried keeping busy, hanging out with friends and picking up new stuff but I still feel stuck. Part of me still hopes we might get back together even though I know that’s probably not a good idea.
I just wanna move on and feel like myself again, but don’t know how without bottling up my feelings or rushing into something new.
I kept telling myself that we are over and I must move on now. But I don’t think I really can.
How do I get over someone I really cared about? How do I know when I’m ready to love again?