I’ve been seeing Paul for about 2 months. Btw, I am 22 and he is 26. Most of the time things feel good. We really enjoy being together and hanging out with friends. We have similar habit like watching thriller movies, drinking coffee and mobile games but some moments make me confused. He sometimes suddenly gets upset with small things and then shouting instead of talking calmly and other times, he seems really distracted when we are together. I don’t want to overthink but I also don’t want to ignore those signs. How do you tell the difference between red flag and just overthinking and being paranoid?
