[ekei]

Hello all.I have a big problem on my hands.My boyfriend and I started dating in June.he told me he had a fiancee whom he no longer trusts because they do not live in the same town(he is a soldier) and I was dumb enough to believe him.He used to live in the camp .Everything seemed okay until two weeks ago,he rented a flat in town and did not tell me about it.He avoided my calls and me and when I asked him,he said he was busy.He has brought his fiancee to live in his apartment.I did not know about this until i saw both of them in church last sunday.He told me that he would just like us to be simple friends who can still hang out sometimes.Last week,he gave me a gift.The next day,he told me that I should help his fiancee to get a job in town.I really don’t get this guy at all.
I still love him but……I am just so torn

[April Masini, your AskApril]

How can you love a guy who cheats on you — and then has the nerve to tell you to help his other woman, to whom he’s actually given a ring and a date, to get a job? 😯 Seriously? You love him? Really???

If you don’t know what he’s up to, let me do a little remedial dating education: He’s cheating on you. And on her — and my guess is that there will be others that you’ll find out about eventually. 😕

Luckily, you’ve only invested a few months in this relationship. My advice is to move on and find someone who is honest, for starters.

I hope that helps!

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