[Nana92]

Hello
I happened to be madly in love with my girlfriend.
I’ve caught her twice cheating on me with her ex.
I’ve given her the chance to choose between her ex and I but she still chooses me. I’ve chosen her too because I can’t do without her. But the problem is I find it difficult to trust her.
I’m always on her, always thinking she’s doing something bad-cheating. And I cant stop thinking about it.
I still love her tho but I don’t know what to do.
I really want to minimize the love I have for her but I can’t.

Please help me out

[April Mașini, your AskApril]

How long have the two of you been dating?

[jazz000jazz]

Hi. I was with a guy for nearly 9 years and he constantly cheated on me. i saw him with 2 chicks at different times sleeping together and he told me to piss off and leave him alone, yes there was drugs involved on his part as well, but thats no excuse.
I kept trying with us, but in the end, you must realise that cheating is just not on. I cannot begin to describe how hard it was to leave him after time together, i had become a JOKE to everyone around me, as i was being seen as a weak person with no morals. this happens to ALOT of people. ITS SO HARD but life is simple, there is actually guys /girls out there who dont cheat the entire time they are with somebody- and i had become so low in myself while i was with this person- i was STUNNED and looked like an idiot when i kept asking- really? no… really? sorry i hope this helps at least a BIT?

[April Mașini, your AskApril]

Thanks for sharing your experiences.

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