Hi April,
I’m 23 and I’ve started talking to a guy I really like. The thing is, there is a big age gap between us, he is way older than me (he is 34) and I’m not sure if that’s a dealbreaker or something we could work around. I like him a lot and we get along really well but I keep overthinking if this could cause problems later on.
I want to be realistic about the challenges without overanalyzing every little thing. How do you know if dating someone in a situation like this is actually healthy or worth trying? Are there signs it could work or red flags I should watch for?