[Anonymous]

I like this girl that I met several months back and since we’ve met, we’ve hung out occasionally but not too much. It seemed like she was digging me or whatever and I told her I liked her too, but we never committed to each other. Its been awhile since I seen or talked to her because I felt a tiny bit annoyed that the last time I texted her she didn’t reply back.. I understand that we all get busy but most times I initiate the convo so I figured I would just wait until she got at me. She really confuses me Alot, she says she’s really indecisive and don’t want to hurt me with her indecisiveness. I’ve kinda just been waiting to see how things would turn out, since can’t force anyone to be or feel how you want, but my thing is am I doing the wrong thing by kinda waiting to see how it plays out? Honestly I’ve been thinking about her alot but just been a bit turned off by the lack of communication. Recently I heard that she had said something about she realized that you can’t just sit around waiting for something to happen you gotta get off your *** and just do it and also that she’s just a vulnerable woman. Is this the time that I should come back into the picture or is it too late and should I just forget about her?

[Ask April Masini]

If you like her, SHOW HER! ❗ Instead of waiting for HER to return a missed text message, YOU take the initiative and ask her out on a date. Spend some real time with her and let her know how much you care about her. Take the risk, and see what happens. Waiting around for something to magically happen is going to yield you pretty low results. 🙁

Get back in the picture and get back in the game at the same time!

Let me know how it goes — and don’t forget, I really want you to join me on Facebook. Here’s the link: [url][/url]. 🙂

[Anonymous]

Thanks, I’ll attempt to get back in the game and contact her later today. I’ll definatley try to set up a date so we can spend some real time with each other and get to know each other more. I guess I have just been waiting for something to magically happen, but your right thats the wrong approach and the results haven’t been just low, lol they’ve been nonexistant.

[Ask April Masini]

Don’t just ask her out — do it with a flourish. Give her flowers or a single rose when you ask her for a date. Make her feel special and give her the idea that if she spends time with you you’re going to really appreciate her — and she will you, too! 😉

Let us all know how it goes.

And don’t forget to join me on Facebook! Here’s that link: [url][/url]. 🙂

[Anonymous]

April, U are truly a genius, your advice is excellent and I did contact her. She seemed happy to hear from me, but now its just time for me to ask out on a date. I really want it to be something fun and special, something that she’ll remember. I just want to stand out from any other competition there may be, while staying true to me. One thing for me is like, while I’m really talkative, around her I sometimes find myself tongue tied and unsure of what to ask, or say to her. I’m gonna give her the rose or flowers for sure, because I’ve wanted to give her something before but I’ve never bought her anything because I thought maybe it was too much too soon.

[Ask April Masini]

Thanks for telling me I’m a genius!! 🙂 But I really wish you’d take my advice and buy Date Out of Your League. It is going to help you a lot, as I’ve advised you over and over. Here’s the link to buy the book: [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url].

I’m happy to give you all this [i]free [/i]advice, but if you buy the book, it helps fund this website — and the advice I’m giving you, and on top of that IT’S GOING TO HELP YOU!!

So please, please, buy Date Out of Your League (it’s only $14.95) and join me on Facebook! Here’s that link: [url][/url].

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