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    Lemonpop98
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    Hi. I need some help. I am a little confused and probably over reacting but I am finding my boyfriend is starting to get super controlling. We have bee dating for about 2 or 3 months and he is now always asking where I am and what I am doing and it is starting to make me very uncomfortable. Whenever I go out with friends or anything I feel like I get interogated by him.. Who will be there?? How many will you know?? Are you staying the night? How many boys will there be?? How do you know them? Are you drinking??when does it start? Where is it? When does it finish?? Will there be more guys than girls?? Will anyone I know be there? Why am I not invited?? Call me when you get there and when it finishes? What are you wearing?? Can you send me photos?? Questions like that and so many more and I am finding it really invasive and like I have no freedom or space. Then he makes me feel guilty about it, saying stuff like it worries me, I feel like something bad is going to happen, I kinda dont want you to go but its just friends right, i am in a weird mood do you have to go, I dont like this, it does feel right in my gut.. I feel like I have to start having that part of my life and like he just wants my attention all the time and he doesnt when he doesnt. I feel like am suffocating a bit and I have no freedom to hang out with friends just because he doesnt know them or he doesnt feel comfortable about the situation and its worryin me.. Something just isnt feeling right to me.. I have had a controlling boyfriend before and it didnt end that great but it started off in a similar way to this so its scaring me cause I dont want to go through that again.. But then I am not sure if that history is making me over think and over react to the situation.. I just really need som advice right now: (

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    Your instincts are correct. You should trust them! 😉 He isn’t acting normally. There’s something off with him, and at the two to three month mark of dating, which is where you are, you should be deciding if you want to continue dating him. My advice is to opt out. You’re lucky to see this side of him so clearly, so soon. You can save time by moving on. This isn’t going to get any easier or looser with him if you continue dating him. It will become more restrictive. I can tell that’s not what you want.

    I hope that helps!

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