We broke up about 20 days ago after a four year relationship and he was on his own for awhile and I stayed with the apartment. The thing is he is living out of his car because he can’t afford his own place right now and his friends don’t want him staying with them. I am a Christian lady and I have a spare bedroom and feel that if I have the space then I should let him stay because that is the right thing to do. We get along just fine but it is really complicating my feelings and it does make it very hard to get over him. He cleans and cooks and is nice. Actually a really good roommate and we’ve both agreed that if we are interested in someone that we won’t talk about it to each other. I am still in love. He isn’t. I say I’m fine with being friends but it just breaks my heart every day to know that I can’t do anything more than just talk to him. He always asks me if I’m ok with him living here and I say yes but the only reason I can’t make him leave is because I think it’s a horrible thing to make someone live in their car when I have space. I don’t mind him staying and I like the company but I hate that we aren’t what we used to be.
