[Anonymous]

hey april need a lil advice me and my sister love each other very much but sometimes we go a bit over board and even smooch i mean tongue action and all.but even after that we treat each other as same bro and sis and have such bonding as a bro and sis that people say can can a bro and sis be so close how nice and all.so why r we then doing this smooch thing if we r bro sis and such close ones?is this wrong and how should we stop it?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Making out with your sister is wrong, and you should stop doing it immediately without looking for reasons other than my telling you to stop. You don’t need to know how to stop it — you already do. Just don’t. Quit it now.

Your reasons for doing it probably have to do with an inappropriate (at best) and severely abusive (at worst) family background. You can do the history homework and analysis on your own time. For now, stop hurting yourself and your sister by not acting inappropriately, and by looking for new, healthy friends so you can break out of whatever social circles and family patterns you’ve been in that have, in one way or another, led you to this behavior.

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