Need to move on with my life and stop thinking non-sense!
So here is how my story begins…I met my husband when I was 17 (I am now 27) and for most part our relationship was a long distance one, we went to different schools and then we found jobs in different cities. We knew it was what needed to be done, and we knew that we would be together eventually.
Due to life circumstances, 2 years ago I met this guy at work and for some reason there was an instant attraction. We developed quite a strong friendship, but the attraction was too strong and we slept together once (I’ve never slept with anybody else besides my husband). After that incident, we both knew we couldn’t be friends anymore and we stopped talking. I haven’t spoken with my former-friend for a year now . I am now living with my husband – and being away from the things I knew, I think has got me thinking about the other guy, for some sick twisted reason I believe we could be friends again. I know I have to let it go, and out of respect for my husband I can’t talk to the other guy ever again, and just have to look at what happened as a mistake and a life lesson, but it is so hard. When, I am most stressed and feeling lonely I find myself wanting to phone the other guy and see how he is doing….
Please help me…what can I do to make my mind not to think about the other guy? I love my husband and he is the only person I want to spend the rest of my life with, and I feel that every time I think of the other guy I am cheating him once again.
My husband still doesn’t know I slept with the other guy, I don’t want to break his heart…he knows we were good friends (Although sometimes I think he imagines what happened)
Thanks for listening.
Clueless!
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