[Robinson22]

Hi April,

My heart is really confused at this stage and I have no one I can ask advice…2 years ago my mom passed away…so it was not a good time in my life, but I met this wonderful guy and felt like I could move mountains…ok first 3 months always goes good. But then the normal kind of problems came, we fighted and then I caught him cheating on me on 7 months together….we talked about it and moved on. After another 3 months I caught him again but this time on his phone wanting to kiss another girl etc. so we fighted about that, and then not long after the relationship ended. 3 months later he came back and I said yes we can try one more time. I worked with him so we saw each other 24/7. Well it didn’t last long after that, 4 months and it ended again. He chatted to other girls and the msgs he was sending them just broke my heart more…then I went and got work elsewhere. We haven’t been together for 2 months, he came back begging me etc…but I just kept on saying no although I still love him so so much. His mom phoned me the one day and said he really changed for the good, he just went through the ‘playing phase’ and it’s over and maybe things could work now. We have started visiting each other again, etc, I enjoy it, but it feels as to my heart is not in it 🙁 My whole family says please let him go, but I’m struggling for some reason. I can’t tell him now no it’s not going to work, I don’t know, that’s what’s the confusing part that I need help on…

Will this relationship ever work or should I rather just bite the dust and tell him goodbye.

Please help me…

Thank you
Surette

[AskApril Masini]

[quote]Will this relationship ever work or should I rather just bite the dust and tell him goodbye.[/quote]

It will never work. He cheats. Chronically.

When your mom died, you were looking for comfort, and he was that for you, but that ended when you figured out who he really is, and he will no longer be able to provide that comfort for you. Ever. Time to move on and find someone who is honest, has good character and can be a healthy, romantic partner for you. It’s what your mother would want for you, and what, deep down, you want for yourself. 😉 Let your brain inform your heart what is best for you! 😀

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