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April 8, 2011 at 10:39 am #3471
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InactiveI have been dating my bf for 3 yrs. The last year everything has gone down hill. He never takes me out, we just go home to home. Frankly i’m getting bored of it. I just put it behind me because i knw he does not have much money to spend as it he has to support his mother and himself. His mother does not work.Sometimes i get irrated with his mother, because i feel as if she’s selfish.
Our sex live is not great at all.
He always says no to sex. He says that its the same routine, when i try to make it different he does not want to. I have tried everything still no change. I have spoken to him about it. He says he’s getting annoyed with me. So i have decided to leave it. We both stay at home. He only wants to when he’s in the mood.
I find myself beening annoyed at him, as the relationship is not progessing. I feel as if i’m not beeing fullfilled, hes more than a freind than a bf.
I’m independent of him, i try not to expect too much from him. I need your help i dont want to nag him anymore.
I need some advice pleaseApril 9, 2011 at 1:34 am #19010
April Masini, your AskAprilKeymasterYou said that you decided to leave. Good decision. Arm yourself with Think & Date Like A Man, , so you don’t find yourself with a guy who is so selfish and uninterested in you again! It will help you a lot.[url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html [/url] Let me know how things go after you read it.
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.[url][/url] April 9, 2011 at 4:10 am #19438Anonymous
Member #382,293what is it with grown men living with their mothers. ???? too many broken homes where the mother take custody and the father isn’t there to TEACH HOW TO BE A MAN!!! c’mon! really, to all mothers out there with sons…let their fathers teach them how to be men. it will really save a lot of other women from woosies!! April 9, 2011 at 7:25 pm #17555
April Masini, your AskAprilKeymasterHey, now! It’s not fair to heap the blame on men for this problem. Frankly, mothers have just as much responsibility to raise their sons as fathers do! A mother should not take in her adult son for any kind of long term, lazy reason. Nobody held a gun to this mother’s head. She should tell her son he’s a man and he needs to act like one — by getting his own apartment! In fact, maybe the father DID tell his son to go get an apartment and live on his own — because I don’t see this guy living with his dad. Maybe his dad was actually a good parent and said no! 😉 Now, for women who date men who live at home…. what are you thinking?!
😯 Unless there’s some very good reason for a man to be living with his mother (like a crisis or emergency situation), a grown man living with his mother is NOT boyfriend or husband material. So don’t waste your time dating guys who live at home and then complain about them.Date
[b]smart[/b] and don’t blame anyone — but yourself!Hope you’ll read Think & Date Like A Man,
, for more advice on smart dating (from me!), and follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and then on Facebook at this link:[url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html [/url] .[url][/url] April 9, 2011 at 10:19 pm #17282Anonymous
Member #382,293good point there!! 😛 [quote=”April Masini”]Now, for women who date men who live at home…. what are you thinking?!😯 Unless there’s some very good reason for a man to be living with his mother (like a crisis or emergency situation), a grown man living with his mother is NOT boyfriend or husband material. So don’t waste your time dating guys who live at home and then complain about them.Date
[b]smart[/b] and don’t blame anyone — but yourself![/quote] April 13, 2011 at 8:54 pm #19272
April Masini, your AskAprilKeymasterThank you, [b]guesthere[/b] ! -
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