[sylviemarie09]

My fiancé and I have been together for 4 years now and we haven’t had the best relationship but we have overcome a lot of obstacles along the way. Friday night I went to bed early and he decided to take my care and go out with his buddies to the bar(s). Not knowing he even left I woke up at 3 am to find myself alone in our house. He had my car, my phone, my wallet. I had nothing. I messaged him on FB and he (1st lie) told me he was at a friends house and they were going to take him home so I waited another hour (while taking his truck and driving to the “friends” house he was supposedly at and no my car wasn’t there) and messaged him again. Where are you? I asked. Now he was at another friends house waiting on their mom to take him home. (2nd lie) Finally around 5:30 am he ended up coming home in my car. Drunk as a skunk and we immediately started fighting. I couldn’t find my phone (which was in my car that HE took) so we looked for it and finally I gave up. I went and laid down considering I was exhausted both mentally and physically while he left to go back to the 2nd “friends” house to go get my phone. An hour goes by I still can’t sleep so I facetime him through my macbook and he’s waiting outside trying to get them to open the door and he’s about to call the cops. Mind you he’s lying to me about where he’s at AGAIN. I’ll get to that later. So I go on find my iPhone and locate it and drive there and what do you know he’s there at this ghetto apartment in the bad side of town. At that point I didn’t even know what to think. He called the cops because they weren’t answering the door after he was beating on it trying to wake them (whoever they were, I had never been to this apt before). Anyway, so the cops couldn’t do anything without a warrant so we were both in agreement that we would go home and just wait and probably fight again. So I left in my car and he said he would meet me at the house. Little do I know, he never left the apt and decided to kick the door in so I went back up there and he’s in handcuffs sitting in the back of the cop car. The cops told me he was going to jail for burglary of habitation (which in TX is a 2nd degree felony) so I felt so hurt, confused, and everything else under the sun. Anyway, he bonded out today and I’m wondering if I should even stay with him. We have been fighting nonstop about his drinking, going out without me, smoking pot. It’s been a constant battle between us and I’m fed up. I want to know in my heart and head that I’m making the right decision

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I’m happy to help you. But first, give me a little more information…..

How old are you both?

Is this the first time in the four years that this type of thing has happened to you and your fiancé?

When during the four years you’ve been together, did you get engaged, and when is your wedding date?

Let me know, and I’ll answer your questions. 😀

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