[MariaTomlinson]

I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, and I love him. Or at least I think I do.
A couple months ago, I’d found out he had been lying to me about something I feel so strongly against, smoking. He said he quit, but I found out he hadn’t. This wouldn’t have been a big deal to me, except for the fact that he was lying to me for so long.
The past few nights, he hasn’t talked to me. I was supposed to go to his house last night, but when I went there, I found out that he went to hang out with his friends. He also hasn’t been calling me or texting me. When I went to go see him when he was with his friends, he literally picked me up and took me to my car so I would leave.
I’m fine with him being with his friends, but I don’t even get time with him. I can’t tell you he has looked into my eyes and told me he loved me or anything. It just seems like he doesn’t want to see me or even talk to me.
I don’t know what to do. We have been fighting for so long, over a year. Saying it will get better with time, that things will be fixed eventually. I do love him, though. I still get excited when I get to see him, I want nothing more than to be in his embrace, I just am so lost about this whole thing.
I just need some advice from someone who is unbiased. So please, let me know.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

How old are you both?

[MariaTomlinson]

He turns 20 in about a week, I am 18.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

It sounds like the relationship is fizzling out on it’s own. 😳 He’s starting to avoid you — and that’s a sign that he’s not that interested. 🙁 You can break up with him, or you can just let this run it’s course. It sounds like the increased fighting over a long period of time, with his not wanting to see you or be in contact with you lately, is all indicating that this relationship is running it’s course on it’s own. I know you love him, but if you’re always fighting, and he isn’t interested in seeing you, then your feelings are not as important as his behavior.

I know this is disappointing, but if you can face what’s happening, it will be a lot easier for you to move on, and if you feel breaking up to cut to the chase will help, then that’s good.

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