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Im 25, and I had this classmate back in college whom I haven’t seen for almost 4 years. In college I really liked her, and it seemed she liked me too. We’d always bump into each other everywhere and she would always smile and her face would lighten up whenever I was around. But somehow we both never ended up telling each other how we felt, and just remained classmates and nothing more. But im sure if my name came up, she’d definitely be intrigued to know what happened to me after all these years. But now I keep thinking about her and really feel she was the right girl for me.

My question is do you think she liked me back then ? And should I try to locate her and tell her how I feel ? What should I do, how to approach her and not make it embarrassing or weird ?

Really need some good advice cause I keep thinking about her a lot lately and feel maybe she could have been “the one” for me.
Also I don’t know if it’ll make any difference, of the fact that I’m 25 and I’m still pursuing some higher degrees and have barely started my full fledged career ?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

[quote]My question is do you think she liked me back then ? [/quote]

Yes!

[quote]And should I try to locate her and tell her how I feel ?[/quote]

It’s fine to locate her, but I’m not sure what you want to tell her about your feelings. It would be unusual for you to tell her about your feelings for her before you’ve started dating her. So if you want to date her, then ask her out on a date, and she’ll know by your actions how you feel about her and vice versa. If you don’t ask her out, which you haven’t, she’ll never assume you liked her as more than a friend. 😳

[quote]What should I do, how to approach her and not make it embarrassing or weird ?[/quote]

Read the book, Date Out of Your League, [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url], that I wrote for men who want to win with women. It’s got EVERYTHING you need to know about dating and winning women over, in it. It’s an automatic download so you can start reading today! This book will tell you what women want and how, when, where and why to date them. 😉

[quote]Also I don’t know if it’ll make any difference, of the fact that I’m 25 and I’m still pursuing some higher degrees and have barely started my full fledged career ?[/quote]

What that information will tell her is that you’re not ready to get married. But you are ready to date and if you ask her out, she’ll know you want to. 😉

I hope that helps. Let me know how it goes, and please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url]. 😀

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