If you stay, understand what it is that you’re getting into — this woman has a lot of chaos in her life. That’s why other readers have told you to run. Most people don’t want chaos because it’s not usually healthy for most people. If she’s willing to take responsibility for some of that chaos, or wants your support in helping her cut it down, then there is a chance this can work.
She needs to go to the police and report the rape. She should also get an AIDS test and counseling as a rape victim. You shouldn’t be having unprotected sex with her until she knows she’s not a carrier of any sexually transmitted diseases as a result of the rape.
After that, she should get a child support order so that the father of the 7 month old takes care of his financial responsibilities for the baby he fathered with her.
If you do date her, you will likely become the father figure to her children. Make sure that that is what you want because your involvement with her is not just affecting you and she, but two children, as well.
I hope that helps you make a decision. Let me know how things go.
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