Let’s talk about the first woman you love. You’ve dated her for four months and she won’t spend the night with you. 😯 Find out why. If she has children at home, and feels she needs to be with them at night, that makes a lot of sense. However, if she is married and not telling you — or living with someone she has to come home to at night to keep that relationship steady — then there are complications behind her behavior. So, figure out why she won’t spend the night with you, especially if you love her. And if you are upset about giving her money, then don’t. That’s in your control. 😉
As for your ex-fiance, in spite of what she may have told you about her boyfriend, she’s still with him. If he was really that terrible, she wouldn’t be. Also, her co-parenting relationship with her child is between her and her child’s other parent, so if you walk into a relationship with a single parent, like her, you’re walking into a complicated relationship — more so than if she had no children. I know you’re in love with her, but it isn’t clear that she’s really available and willing to date you. 😕
If you love the first woman, do a little more work on that relationship, but don’t give up playing the field. It doesn’t sound like either of these scenarios is really right for you. I hope that helps! 😉
