[Anonymous]

This is a confusing story but here goes!!

Last month I visited my family home for a few days at the same time that my brothers friend and her brother (let’s call him T) were visiting.It was T’s first visit, he did not know any of us and he was just there to help his sister with her toddler as it is a 7 hour car journey. I was instantly attracted to T on meeting and we got on really well – long story short we all got a little tipsy and ending up kissing in my kitchen when everyone else was in bed. The next morning things were a little arkward as we were surrounded by my family and it was as if nothing happened. I went back to my home and although I did think about him I put it down to a one off encounter.

Then last week i returned home again for a family event, which my brother’s friend was also invited to and again T joined her. This was totally unexpected and he decided to join her at the last minute. Again he told my family it was to help his sister with her toddler on the long drive. Again I was really attracted to him and we got on really, really well and flirted a lot. we spent the first day with his sister and niece just hanging out and chatting. The second day was the family event and he spent the entire day chatting and being totally charming to my family & friends. That night after a few drinks when we were left alone he kissed me again and said he had been thinking about me all month but couldn’t call as he did not have my number (he did not ask for it and could have gotten it from my brother or his sister if he really wanted it), we kissed some more and he asked me to spend the night with him which I declined.

The next morning it was as if nothing has happened but again was arkward as we were surrounded by my family. We both left and went our separate ways but I got his number from his sister and texted him the next day to say hello. we texted back and forth a few times that day just general chit chat but I have heard nothing since. I am fine with this but just don’t understand why he made such a effort and them stopped dead.

Any suggestions??

[April Masini, your AskApril]

He’s just not that interested in you. 😳 That’s the bottom line here. Why he is or isn’t just isn’t very important. His excuse for not contacting you after kissing you is lame. If a guy wants to get your phone number or e-mail address, it’s really not that hard to do.

Bottom line is that he likes you when you’re there and easy for him to be with, but he isn’t interested in making any kind of effort at forging a relationship other than that.

I hope that answers your question and puts your mind at ease. I’m sure it isn’t what you wanted to hear, but I think you’ll agree it’s the truth.

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