You have power in this situation…. but you’re not using it. 😳 You’re [i]tricking[/i] yourself into thinking that you’re a victim, but you’re not one. Here’s the situation:
You’re pretty clear that he’ll never leave his wife. And you’re pretty clear that you want your own man. Do the math: you want your own man; he’s never going to leave his wife…. stop banging your head against the wall. Find a man who will be all yours! Not him — someone who wants to be just your man.
As long as you continue to see this guy and to talk to him, he’ll do whatever you’ll allow. So decide what YOU want, find it, and get it! That means that if you want a single man, you have to spend time with single men.
I know this sounds simple — because it is. Use discipline and get busy taking care of yourself and getting out there and dating guys who are single. As for this married guy, just stop picking up the phone and opening the door. It’s really that easy. 😀
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