[Badfinger]

Move on….
He’s probably NOT thinking about you, your ego will recover, time heals all wounds?

[Badfinger]

I would take him at his word, and next time let a guy know that up front.
All is not lost, there are men that won’t mind an instant family, gets to skip the diapers and waking up at all hours phase: priceless!
It might take a guy who has children with someone else, himself.
Chin up, smile, relax. 😀

[Badfinger]

I’m suggesting: Don’t care what your parents think, at this point. You’re not 15 and on your own.
They have given their opinion, and ultimately it’s up to you and they SHOULD respect that.
You can tell them I said so. 😀
Losing you over who you decide to be with, is pretty pathetic, you can also tell them I said so. 😀
You seem to fear your parents, don’t, they should love you unconditionally, and that’s that.
It’s really their problem, don’t let it be yours, too.
Good luck!

[Badfinger]

You can’t make someone LOVE you, first of all.
You’ve been in a yo-yo romance with her, give her some SPACE and time.
Doubtful this is going to improve though and keep looking, heartbreak takes time to heal.

Your P.S. broke logic rules, care to edit that? (not sure why you mention it though)

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My nearly psycho reference is just a possibility from her perspective and the term used loosely.

[Badfinger]

Based on the initial post, both parties were wrong and if that was repairable, I’d be mighty surprised.
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Separation at the very least for a while, and think things through.

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3 months into it, I am not sure showing your best self is what I would call it, I would just BE YOURSELF, if that’s not good enough, be gone with them, it wasn’t meant to be.

There is the one and there is wanting to continue, not exclusive in my mind.

[Badfinger]

No I am pretty sure ALL 18 year olds are lame, talking interests, attitudes, experience, all taken into account.
I still remember 18, I’m not that old. 😆

[Badfinger]

Hi, what do his actions and body language tell you?

“Actions speak louder than words”

If those tell you that, then you can simply say: “I love you, too!”

If they don’t, then he needs more time and I wouldn’t say it yet.

[Badfinger]

YES, assuming it’s on topic. (Relationships)

[Badfinger]

Sorry buddy, divorce the WITCH, I’m very sorry you got taken for a ride like that.

Part of me is happy once you claimed you could get any woman, your ego needs a chainsaw taken to it, I am pretty surprised you said that after you just described a nightmare. Was this relationship based on you providing tangibles and nothing else?

On the plus side, you are still young and now you have ‘learned’ and will not make this mistake again?
Then again you are an egotistical spaz apparently, so you might attract this type of woman and you reap what you sow, so honestly you probably need an attitude adjustment, I hope this helps you on your way to recovery.

Regards,

B

[Badfinger]

Did you tell her that?

3 months is a little soon to declare her the ONE for you.

You didn’t have an exclusive relationship apparently and she’s got another boyfriend now, I gather from her actions.

You are out of luck here it appears, but I’d ask her directly IN PERSON, you need chance to read body language.

[Badfinger]

Hi, things that just came to mind:

She’s been up front and honest about it, so really it’s probably not your decision?

You could ask HIM what his intentions are, and/or try to set him up with OTHER women, and see if that bait is taken or avoided like the plague.

Really sounds like you have trust issues with your lady and I would aggressively put this worry to an end so you can sleep at night, honesty is the best policy.
You could try the reverse scenario, how would she feel if you had an old flame for 3 years suddenly reappear in your life and you’d like to be friends?

You probably need to elaborate on your issue, that was a bit short, what else is there to the story?

[Badfinger]

Occupy your time and relax, it’s ok, it’s a short period of time he has asked for, I myself don’t understand shutting you out entirely but to each his own/your milage will vary.

If unemployed keep looking and I suggest visiting a local library and find something there to obsess over instead, probably some good relationship reading, if nothing else. *hint hint*

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You are wrong, you ARE a heartless bitch.

Read your own post, I got the impression you are stupid for various reasons.

Got married for support? The guy knows it and you wonder why your relationship with him is in the crapper?

You need kicked to the curb, he’s been too nice to you and made a huge mistake, his move to take the money is understandable, you come across as a gold digger and extremely flaky.

Serious relationship over X-Box live and don’t even have a picture? You making this stuff up?

WAKE UP CALL delivered.

Sorry to be so harsh, but seems warranted in this case, and I won’t be surprised if April deletes this.

Best of luck with the new man you are running off with… really looks like you should since you both have totally blown your marriage to bits and you need SUPPORT.

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