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Swera KhanMember #382,777Don’t make the mistake of traveling to his city just to meet him, and definitely don’t get physical. If you really want to see him, meet in a public place and set firm boundaries. If he is genuinely interested in you, he will respect your ‘No’ and value your friendship. But if he gets angry or disappears, then consider it proof that April was 100% right—all he ever wanted was sex.
Swera KhanMember #382,777Going three years without meeting is a death for any relationship.She had moved on mentally ago,she’s only just telling you now.
Leave it, spend time with friends and family, watch movies, go for walks, and stay busy with work or studies.March 12, 2026 at 5:46 am in reply to: Tries to make me have fun, does he have feelings for me? #52835
Swera KhanMember #382,777Like Ask April, I would also say, don’t be a victim of your own shyness. If you like him, give him the signal that you are an “option”, not a project.
Swera KhanMember #382,777Look, the biggest rule of dating is that actions speak louder than Snapchat. If a guy were really interested in you, he would find some way to meet you or make plans again, even after being sick or if you went on a trip.
And April was right to say that focus on the people you have here instead of that guy who’s away at college and isn’t making an effort.
Swera KhanMember #382,777Wow, April, I really like your way of giving expert advice.
As an expert, you are more logical than emotional, and you value reality checks, which are most important in such situations.
And I agree 100 percent with Asak April that you two are on different paths. If you want marriage and children,
Then you should look for someone whose priorities align with yours.
Swera KhanMember #382,777When a girl says that she’s living with her ex and it’s hard to bring a guy home, she’s not just talking about the weather; she’s technically giving you a signal about her availability and boundaries.
If you are confused and want to know if a girl is interested in you or not, then you should follow the April expert advice and offer her a casual date. If she says yes, move on. If no, go back to being classmatesMarch 11, 2026 at 6:11 pm in reply to: Strategy to meet this exchange student and maybe extend relationship? #52829
Swera KhanMember #382,777In an orchestra or a movie, you mostly sit in silence. Since you are meeting for the first time and time is limited, choose things where there is more interaction.
I think it’s a good idea to visit an event museum during the day and have a quiet conversation over dinner in the evening.
Swera KhanMember #382,777If he is active on Facebook or Instagram but is giving you short replies, it means he has energy, but he doesn’t want to waste that energy on you. Stress has its place, but ignoring it is a different matter.
And I also agree with Ask April, give him enough space so that he misses you. If he still doesn’t come, then understand that your four-month trial is over and the product turned out to be bad, so move on.March 11, 2026 at 5:44 pm in reply to: love to make them feel better about life after divorce ….? that girl? #52827
Swera KhanMember #382,777I was really surprised to read your post, and Ask April was correct that it is truly unique.
When a person receives true love or unconditional attention from someone, their emotional barriers simply break down. These men were probably quite broken inside, and Tara’s warmth acted as a catalyst that brought all those suppressed emotions to the surface.
Swera KhanMember #382,777The girl’s repeated refusal to join a group and then her suggestion to form her own group for a football game shows that she is probably nervous.
When you are alone in the ride, it is a different matter, but showing off in front of friends is probably scaring her.
Ask April was absolutely right that the girl likes you because both are teenagers and don’t have much dating experience, so the girl wants a group date so she feels safe and doesn’t feel pressured.March 11, 2026 at 5:10 pm in reply to: ”The are we dating or possibly working towards it” dreadful talk. Unsure of how to approach the subject #52824
Swera KhanMember #382,777Listen, think of it like a job trial. Do you give someone a permanent contract after working for six days? No, not really. Then why do you have to make this relationship permanent so quickly? Just observe him for three months and see how he is during difficult times. Is he really a gentleman, or is he just acting?
Ask April is absolutely right, guys hate “The talk.” They feel like a court case where they are on trial.
Swera KhanMember #382,777Remember that if a guy has been watching you for years and rejecting other girls, he’s not confused, he’s just nervous, and Ask April has already told you that he likes you.
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