[Jake]

Stop ring shopping! Before you wear your wedding dress, confirm that there is room in that closet for you or just for memories of your ex. Tell him: If you want to keep gifts, keep them with love, but there is no place for lies in my life. If he loves old dirty laundry that much, tell him to marry them. You want a man who sees a “future” with you, not a man who hides his ex’s “past” in the closet. Wear confidence and take a stand because you were made to roll, not to live in options!
April is right that she still has a connection to her ex, which is normal. Everyone has “baggage.” If he wants to marry you, you should accept that there is a corner in his heart for old love. When he is ready, he will take it out on his own.

[Jake]

The simple truth is that this guy is not loving you, he is ordering you around. There are no “deadlines” in a relationship. He is putting you down in the heat of his college parties. Before he leaves you, you should kick him out and save your self-respect. A man who blackmails you over your relationship with your family can never be sincere to you.

[Jake]

Two weeks of texting is not a “budding connection,” it’s just time wasted. Forget about it and make your list longer. When you have 5 options, you won’t cry when one says “OK”!
AskApril is absolutely right that you texted in anger because you had no other options. She says that you should also “play the field” (i.e. meet other guys) so you don’t go crazy after one.

[Jake]

Hi!!!!
You call jealousy a “monster”? I call it “intuition.” Your mind is screaming at you that you’re being played, and you’re blaming yourself by calling it jealousy. Ghost it and upgrade your life. Show confidence; the world is full of girls who will appreciate your loyalty.
Ask April has given expert advice that you don’t waste more time. Five months is enough to realize that this girl is not trustworthy. Leave her and move on.

[Jake]

If he loves his bike more than you, tell him to go on a date with his bike and stop chasing you. Saying “it’s all in fun” is a sign of a loser. He’s not going to change, and you’re not a repair shop that fixes bad boys.
AskApril is right when she says, “Why are you even with someone like that?” April Masini says that there’s no point in staying with this boyfriend, whether or not the other guy is in the scene. Move on.

[Jake]

3 days? Now, don’t wait for the fourth day and don’t send him a desperate “Where are you?” text. If he’s quiet, be even quieter. Respond to ghosting with double ghosting.
I like April’s advice because she’s straightforward, no sugarcoating. After all, she is absolutely right that when you get physical too quickly, it’s hard to tell if a guy has lost interest or wants that one thing.
If he’s not calling, he’s not interested. Move on.

[Jake]

You’re 25, not 85! By simply saying “he’s nice” and “he’s caring,” you’ve locked yourself in a cage where there’s comfort but no fun. Emotional support and sexual chemistry are two different things.
But some people say “sex isn’t everything,” but the truth is that when sex goes bad, it’s all over. If you’re telling yourself “it’s okay” right now, you’re making a deal with your whole life. A marriage without passion is just a “roommate deal.”
AskApril expertly advises planning romantic dates, stocking up on sexy things to wear in your lingerie drawer, exploring new places, and sparking the spark
Talk openly with your partner about what you like and don’t like, then make a decision. And be sure to read April’s recommended e-book for you, you’ll get new ideas about better sex, Romantic Date Ideas.

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