[Zoha]

I think the best solution is “Silence.” Give her space. If they really miss your friendship, they might reach out when they’ve cooled down. If you forcefully reach out, it could make things worse.
And AskApril gave the expert advice to send her a huge and “impressive” bouquet of flowers to lighten the mood. It might change her mood. If she calls or thanks you after seeing the flowers, you’ve got a way to go. If she still remains silent, “you tried”, and you should consider the chapter closed.

[Zoha]

This advice from Ask April is quite practical. It turns out she caught something that most people overlook: human psychology.
If the answer was vague the first time, asking a second time will clear up the picture. If they’re not really interested, they’ll probably say a more clear “No” the second time. But if there was a misunderstanding the first time or they were busy, asking again will give them a chance to show their interest.
So, have some courage and ask one more time, but whatever the answer may be, accept it gracefully.

[Zoha]

That guy is dropping out of college, leaving his career and friends behind, thinking, “I must be waiting.” he has no idea that instead of a “Welcome Home” banner, he’s about to get hit with a “Who’s this new guy?” bombshell. It’s a brutal surprise.
I agree 100% with AskApril that you might be sabotaging the relationship. When your boyfriend suddenly decided to come back, you were scared.
And April is right that having a boyfriend come back is a big “commitment.” You’re so young (18) that you might be trying to escape from this serious relationship, and the new guy is just a way to escape that fear.

[Zoha]

You are 18 and going to college. Your life has just begun, while he is paying for his past mistakes behind bars. A boy in prison has no option but to be loyal because he has no one outside. The real test will be when he comes out.
Go to college, meet new people, and get some free air.
If he is truly your soulmate, he will come back to you after serving his sentence and change himself. For now don’t ruin your degree and your youth by becoming his “jail wife.”

[Zoha]

AskApril asked the right question. What did he do that he could have been imprisoned for 50 years?
Sister, was that boy stealing nuclear codes at 17, or playing GTA in real life? This is a big enough “red flag” to cover the entire stadium, but we feel sorry for him because “he’s a great guy.”
Love is in its place, the secret of “50 years imprisonment,” and this habit of becoming a ghost. This combination is very dangerous. If he doesn’t come back before therapy, then you should pack your “indecisiveness” and meet someone who will hold your hand instead of disappearing in stress.

[Zoha]

I love AskApril’s style because she’s straightforward and honest without being condescending. Her analysis is absolutely spot on that when someone is overly suspicious of you, they may be projecting their own weaknesses onto you. The truth is, relationships are built on trust, not threats. In such a situation, it’s best to face the truth.
Ask April’s expert advice is spot on: either accept the breakup and see what happens when you get back, or move on because the guy doesn’t seem ready for commitment.
I think if he wants to end the relationship because you are going to Cuba, go with passion. When you’re in Cuba with beautiful scenery and friends, you’ll realize that crying over a skeptical and insecure person was a waste of time. Level up, baby! There’s no need to beat up a guy who doubts your loyalty.

[Zoha]

Hi!!!
If he was with a girl, he wouldn’t have used the name ‘mail friend’, he would have come up with a better excuse. But if your heart is telling you something is wrong, remember: a girl’s ‘gut feeling’ is more accurate than Google Maps.

[Zoha]

AskApril is absolutely right here, that try for a certain amount of time. If you don’t get a response, there’s no need to waste your money and self-respect by sending more flowers.
The truth is, if you’re a real “Hot Boy,” you shouldn’t have so much free time that you keep knocking on closed doors. Real “Attitude” is when you show her that your life doesn’t stop because of her “Seen” or “Unseen” messages.
Leveling up doesn’t just mean going to the gym or wearing new clothes; the real leveling up is when your vibe becomes so expensive that the girl realizes what she’s missing out on.

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