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Soban raiMember #382,807At the age of 30, when you take someone to your hometown to meet your father, they aren’t just a friend. This man is simply playing it safe. By using the ‘friend’ label, he is dodging all responsibility so that if he decides to walk away tomorrow, he can claim, ‘I told you from the start we were just friends.
If a man cannot stand in front of his father and say, This is my girlfriend, then he is simply not ready to settle down yet. you needs to have the Talk before attending that wedding; otherwise, he will remain just a ‘plus one’ rather than a partnerApril 14, 2026 at 6:04 am in reply to: I broke her heart, ruined everything, and want her back. #53223
Soban raiMember #382,807David, let’s be real this “intense love” you’re feeling all of a sudden isn’t love; it’s a bruised ego.
As long as you had her, you were out there seeking external validation. The moment she started giving someone else attention, you felt your own value slipping away and suddenly turned into a hopeless romantic.
If you’ve truly changed, then let the girl live in peace. Messaging her repeatedly isn’t impressing her; it probably just feels creepy.
Move on, and when you date the next girl, make sure you actually delete the apps!
Ask April made a very practical point that I found spot on. She said a 17-month habit of using dating apps doesn’t just disappear with words. She gave expert advcie that you should start dating again himself, just to figure out if he actually wants monogamy or if he’s just someone who prefers variety.- MemberPosts