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Benny is always attracted to girls who don’t give him the time. In 2012, he was a “poor guy”, in 2016, he became a “confused player”, and in 2017, he became a “seen” lover again. Benny’s real problem isn’t the girl. It’s his own insecurities and needy nature.
By the way, Benny needs a good therapist and a little “self-confidence” more than AskApril’s advice!

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That man is openly saying, “Let the daughter stay with her father.” Do you understand what that implies? He wants to “enjoy” your company, but he doesn’t want to shoulder the burden of your responsibilities (your child). He only wants you as long as life is limited to “fun and dates.”
Ask April’s point is absolutely correct: “Any man who loves you will also love your child.” But there is another point here: April said, “Drop everything.” I say leave this man not just for your daughter, but for your own self-respect. Are you questioning your own motherhood for a man who is currently sleeping under someone else’s roof just for “papers”?
This isn’t emotional attachment; it’s an emotional trap. To escape the bitterness of your previous marriage, you took refuge in a man who is himself unfinished business. Bringing your daughter back and rebuilding your life should be the priority, not waiting for a man who is using his own wife for a residency card.

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How could someone be so foolish as to liquidate their entire life just to meet someone four times? The moment that girl said, “I won’t be bothered to read it if it’s too long,” Jer should have blocked her, left the hotel, and gone out to explore a new thing.
Religion and family are just excuses. If she truly loved him, she would have at least checked on his well-being or asked about his hotel expenses. That girl is extremely selfish and egoistic.
AskApril gave the perfect advice that this girl is not right for you. Someone who ignores you despite such massive sacrifices can never be your partner.
When Jer wanted to say goodbye one last time, AskApril told him not to engage in further conversation. Just send one final text and move on, because the girl would only cause you more pain.

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This guy is acting like a total “shy hero” from a movie! Giving you his business card and then doing a “catwalk” past the store every day while fixing his hair is a dead giveaway, he’s clearly head over heels. He’s just terrified of actually speaking.
Honestly, since he already gave you his card, the “ball is no longer in his court”; he’s basically passed it to you. Instead of asking for coffee directly, try texting him with some work-related excuse and see how he responds.
If you wait for him to suddenly turn into an “alpha male” and take charge, you’ll probably spend the next year just waving at each other. You need to give him a little “green light,” but not so much that the poor guy gets scared and runs away from the mall entirely!

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You’re not afraid of the supervisor; you’re afraid that if you take a “shot” and it misses, you’ll have no excuse to save your self-esteem. AskApril is right that Life is not a spectator sport. It’s better to go out on the pitch yourself than to sit in the stadium and watch others bat, even if you get out on the first ball!
If the supervisor were that perfect, wouldn’t he have fallen for her years ago? He’s sitting with you today because your “anxious-reserved” vibe probably puts him more at ease than his “hyper-social” vibe. Own your vibe, babe!

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At the age of 30, when you take someone to your hometown to meet your father, they aren’t just a friend. This man is simply playing it safe. By using the ‘friend’ label, he is dodging all responsibility so that if he decides to walk away tomorrow, he can claim, ‘I told you from the start we were just friends.
If a man cannot stand in front of his father and say, This is my girlfriend, then he is simply not ready to settle down yet. you needs to have the Talk before attending that wedding; otherwise, he will remain just a ‘plus one’ rather than a partner

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David, let’s be real this “intense love” you’re feeling all of a sudden isn’t love; it’s a bruised ego.
As long as you had her, you were out there seeking external validation. The moment she started giving someone else attention, you felt your own value slipping away and suddenly turned into a hopeless romantic.
If you’ve truly changed, then let the girl live in peace. Messaging her repeatedly isn’t impressing her; it probably just feels creepy.
Move on, and when you date the next girl, make sure you actually delete the apps!
Ask April made a very practical point that I found spot on. She said a 17-month habit of using dating apps doesn’t just disappear with words. She gave expert advcie that you should start dating again himself, just to figure out if he actually wants monogamy or if he’s just someone who prefers variety.

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