[Luis]

There’s a good chance that she likes you too based on what you said, that she replies quickly to your texts and is sometimes sweet.

I’ve known a lot of people who started developing feelings for each other through frequent texting, since it’s also a way of communicating and showing care when you often message someone.

Just let the two of you get to know each other more first and then confess your feelings when you’re sure you really like her. Then you can see how she responds.

[Luis]

It’s possible that she’s also interested in you and just waiting for you to confess your feelings first because many women usually don’t express their feelings until the man does.

Just continue being noticeable and staying close to her because that’s often how girls start to develop feelings, especially if you’re playful and you make her smile. I’m sure she might end up liking you too.

If you really like her and you’re both at the right age, try courting her in your own way. You might have a chance, and she could say yes to you.

[Luis]

It’s hard to immediately say something is a red flag when you’ve only just started getting to know and dating each other. You should first take time to carefully observe her behavior.

For me, yes that’s a red flag because you’ve waited him for about 30 minutes on your date and keeps you waiting, but even then, there could still be a valid reason, maybe he got caught in traffic or his meeting ended late. The best thing is still to communicate with each other.

Don’t overthink or immediately look for red flags. Just assume that businessmen are often really busy. Keep checking in on him and try to make him smile to help ease his stress because he might already be stressed with his business while you’re already thinking something is wrong with him.

[Luis]

Maybe she’s just shy since you’ve only recently met and she doesn’t want to come across as clingy. Give her more time so you can both get to know each other better and eventually she will feel more at ease with you and become comfortable enough to even text you first.

For now, don’t rush her. Just continue showing initiative by texting her and checking on her daily, even if her replies are short. If you really like her, you won’t give up easily.

[Luis]

You already had her, but you still let her go, and now you’re the one chasing after her. It’s true that you only realize a person’s value once they’re no longer in your life.

A woman is not a toy that you can let go of whenever you get annoyed because she’s clingy then try to take back again once you start missing her presence.

For me, the girl did the right thing by fixing herself and learning how to be happy even without you in her life because that’s what you wanted in the beginning, right?

Now you finally understand her value in your life and you’ve proven to yourself that you really love her. Hopefully, if she comes back to you, you won’t take her for granted or push her away again, because there may come a point where her feelings for you completely disappear and once again you’ll realize her worth only when it’s already too late.

Right now, what you should do is win her back and make an effort to make things right with her.

[Luis]

It’s not a good idea to get back together with him if that’s what you’re thinking. He lied and betrayed you, so if you’re considering going back to him, don’t.
Just focus on yourself for now. You’re already a good, independent woman with your own home. You will still meet a better man who truly deserves you. Don’t be swayed by the nice things that man is saying.

[Luis]

If you want to get back together, something needs to change between the two of you—especially your behavior—because if not, the breakup cycle will just keep repeating whenever you both reach your limits, especially since you said she is very controlling.
But if you’re no longer happy and the relationship has become too unhealthy, it’s better to just end it. Let go of the friendship for now because it’s not that easy to go back to being friends when there’s a romantic history involved. Maybe in time, you might become friends again, but for now it’s better to move on and forget about it.

[Luis]

If you want peace of mind and an honest insight about the painting, it’s better to confront her in a good way—calmly, without looking for a fight—so that your overthinking about the painting can finally end and you won’t keep feeling uneasy or unable to have peace of mind.

[Luis]

I think even from your first breakup, everything between you was already over. I think she was just using you.
Because imagine, she didn’t even consider you before deciding to work in Thailand. And she still left without you, even though your reason for not going was valid—you were just thinking about saving money for your future together.
Just move on. That’s how it is. She doesn’t deserve you.

[Luis]

In my opinion, that guy likes you. His way of annoying you is just his way of getting your attention—it’s clear that he’s trying to make you notice him. Maybe if you also like him, I think you should give him some signals so he can gather the courage to ask you out on a date. Try flirting a little too.
I’m sure that guy likes you. He’s just shy, so he’s showing his interest through jokes instead.

[Member]

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