[Tyrone]

Just talk to each other since communication is the issue. You really just need to have an honest conversation to resolve it. Make sure it’s calm and not filled with blaming each other for past actions, so you can both understand each other better.

[Tyrone]

I don’t think you’re actually that shy since you were able to invite him out for coffee. Maybe you should try doing that again—build more rapport first, and once he feels more comfortable with you, that’s when you can be honest about your true feelings for him. You can also try asking him out on a proper date. If he agrees, that’s great. If not, then respect his decision, even if it hurts. You also need to learn how to accept “loss” so you don’t end up getting too hurt in the end if your “mission” doesn’t work out.

[Tyrone]

That means you also like Jaxon, so why don’t you make it official with him already? He might end up with someone else. He seems like a good guy—he puts in effort and always updates you. What he’s doing clearly shows he’s interested in you. He constantly keeps you updated and even picks you up and drops you off, which is a clear sign that he likes you.

[Tyrone]

Why don’t you just ask her directly why she suddenly changed? You used to talk all the time and be very active, but now things are different. That way, you’ll know the real reason—whether she’s just busy or if she’s really losing interest in you.

[Tyrone]

It’s normal to feel attracted to other people as long as it doesn’t go beyond that—it’s not cheating. Maybe it’s also because you miss her and you’re unconsciously looking for what feels “missing” in her in other people. That could also be why you’re starting to feel suspicious now, not necessarily because she’s doing something wrong, but because your own feelings are shifting and you’re overthinking things.
Try to go through your plans first and don’t focus too much on what might happen next. Just let things flow naturally and follow where things go without overthinking every possible outcome.

[Tyrone]

I don’t think so. People are different, and everyone has their own personality. Just because you are like that doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with you. So you don’t need to worry about it. At the end of the day, it really depends on the person who understands you.

[Tyrone]

So what—are you trying to get even with him?

You know one wrong doesn’t fix another wrong. Instead of cheating on your fiancé, why not just end the relationship? You can’t justify hurting him just because he hurt you before.

What if he actually regrets what he did and has already changed? If you don’t feel your relationship with your fiancé anymore, it’s better to end it properly first before you do something you’ll regret later.

[Tyrone]

You need to learn how to control emotions that don’t really need to take over. Like overthinking—even when everything is going well, you still worry about things that haven’t even happened yet. You should train yourself to focus on what you have right now instead of immediately stressing about things that aren’t even real yet. You already know that it doesn’t help you at all.
That’s why I know you also know what you need to do. Just enjoy the moment. Nothing in this world is guaranteed—everything can change at any time. So you need to learn how to adapt to those changes quickly so you don’t end up losing yourself or getting hurt in the end.

[Tyrone]

If his ex is still single, that situation is risky—you probably shouldn’t have agreed to it. Three days and four nights with alcohol, staying in the same room, is something where intimacy could easily happen, especially when they’ve had a past together. When people drink, emotions and old memories can come up, and they might end up talking about their relationship again.
You’re not being “too picky” or dramatic—you’re trying to prevent something that could hurt you later. You really can’t fully know what might happen, even if they say they’re just friends. The fact that there’s history between them already changes the situation.
At the very least, he shouldn’t have gone alone under those conditions—or the only acceptable option would’ve been for you to come with him.

[Tyrone]

You’re just being jealous. It’s not really important anymore how much she loved her ex. They’re already done, and she already gave you assurance that she won’t go back to him and that you’re the one she loves now.
Maybe those memories just came back because of the movie you watched—that’s all it is. Focus on the present and not the past.
Deep love is also a process, and if your relationship is strong, you might even surpass what she felt for her ex before. Believe me.

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