When boyfriend gets too comfortable with the relationship

It sounds like you want more time with your boyfriend. So, first of all be honest about whether he actually has the time to give you. If he’s in the army and seeing you once a week, as well as spending time with family, does he have more time to spend with you? If the answer is yes, then your job is to make him want to spend more time with you by being that much more alluring and fun. Dial up the sex appeal and the excitement in your normal social routine. For instance, if you always have the same weekly date, check out my book called Ideas For A Fun Date. You can order it online at this link, [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/ideas-for-a-fun-date.html[/url], and you can download it tonight and start planning your next weekly adventure. Shaking things up a little may make your boyfriend realize how lucky he is to have you and how he can’t wait to see you again.

However, if you’re trying to squeeze blood from a stone in terms of getting him to spend more time with you than he actually has, make the most of what you do have, and consider yourself lucky to have a great boyfriend who’s only fault is that you love him so much you wish you had more of him!

Then, of course, there’s always the possibility that you’re a little bored or lonely in your own life without him, and if you keep yourself busier, you won’t miss him so much. Sometimes men and women try to make their boyfriends or girlfriends their whole world. It never works. For long, anyway. After the first six to eighteen months of symbiotic bliss, at best, it’s really important to have your own friends, your own life and your own productive ways to spend time that you’re not with him. So work on yourself and your own calendar and see if by filling up your days you don’t miss him quite so much.

Well, if your worst problem is that you love your boyfriend so much you have more love to give him than you have time with him to give it to him, give it to him in other ways! Knit him a sweater when you feel like you want to be with him but can’t. Bake him a cake or his favorite cookies when you want to be with him but can’t be. Write him a love letter or embroider your initials together in a heart on a pillowcase for him when you want to be with him and can’t.

Using your time and energy for him, without his actually having to be there, may solve the problem for you. And getting all these heartfelt gifts from you may endear him even further to you.

Hope that helps!