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    lauren82
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    Hi

    I met this guy a few years ago at a mutual friends wedding, he is a very quiet guy but i felt attracted to him, however i was in a long term relationship at the time so obviously i took no notice.
    I broke up with my ex about 18 months ago and have been single every since, have been on a few dates but nothing exciting.
    The wedding guy and i talk over the internet sometimes nothing huge just a hi hope you are ok type thing. i told our mutualk friend that i have always liked him but he has since went and told wedding guy! Wedding guy said he would be incomfortable meeting up 121 as we not seen eachother for years and he has never really done the whole dating thing but would be more than happy to meet as part of a crowd to see how we get on, i obviously understand this as i know some of his past and how badly he was treated in the past by his ex fiancee.
    We have our night out and i am suprised at how well we get on, he is really talkative he is, i thought he would be very quiet and not say a word,ending up having a great night out arraning another night out for my birthday in a few weeks time!!

    i sent him a quick message online saying that i hope he had a good night after we had left and it will be good to catcch up again. he replies with yeah had a great night and it was a shame that we had to leave earlier but is really looking forward to going out again!!!

    what i am asking is, a few of my friends think i should leave it but i think it is all good signs that he is giving me, obviously i am not going to shut myself off to him.

    hope you can help

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    April Masini
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    Sounds like he likes you and he had a great time with you. Now, the hard part: Leave the ball in his court. Let him make the next move, and you respond with your best, flirtatious self!

    If he wants to date you, he’ll let you know. Don’t make excuses for him about his ex-fiance dating him badly. Sit on your hands, and don’t volunteer to do his job for him. I know this is going to be tough for you because you’re so anxious for something good and positive to come of all this, but you’ll be doing yourself (and him) a big favor by following his lead.

    Good luck! 🙂

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