How to improve my bond with my online gf?

Anyways, for the next few months I was trying to heal from my past injury. I knew it was my mistake so it hurt even more. And I swore never to make the same mistake again. A few months later, in January this year, I met another girl on the same site. She was from the Philippines. She was like 5 years younger to me (14) and seemed to develop a crush on me and liked me a lot. I analyzed her and she seemed like a nice girl at the time. Although she hinted a commitment at first, I delayed trying to know her better. I asked some of her friends about her and the responses came positive. That was when I agreed in the commitment. I was also desperate to heal myself from the last injury. I was truthful to her from the start and honest to her about everything. I could never withstand another break-up. But eventually her interest in me fell day-by-day. Eventually she admitted that she would be distracted too often and she never took the relationship seriously. I tried to keep it up as long as possible but by the start of March, I let her go myself, detecting her intense lack of interest in this. Once again, I picked the wrong girl. I made a mistake?

I nearly gave up looking for relationships. I tried to forget everything and move on. I kept myself busy in various activities and was soon moving on without a problem at all. However sometimes thinking back would hurt me and made me feel lonely.[/size][/color]

So anyways, back when I joined the site, in the year 2007s I also made friends with lot of other newcomers. I made friends with a girl who was, for all these years one of my closest and the best friend there. I know people can alter their looks and identity online, but it’s hard to conceal your true personality online since it reflects through your texts and chats. From what I gathered, she seemed to be the nicest girl I’ve ever seen. Modest and kind. Gentle and spoke quite well. She claimed she was from UK and told me her name which resembled an english name. I liked her for these whole 2 years. And I might have had a crush on her all these while as well. But I never spoke up and told her anything. We were like the closest friends there and we talked for the whole 2 years like any close friends would.

This month, just a few days ago I happened to talk again and this time we both revealed out identities to each other. I was surprised and excited to know that she was an Indian as well and was from my own culture. She was surprised to know the same. Our communications then-on grew more intense as she and me had a lot in common. She is an Indian, like me. She was born in India and currently resides in UK. She is one year younger than me. And her mother language is the same as mine. We talked a lot and eventually confessed to her that I liked her all these while. And to my surprise, she said she liked me all these years too. None of us had enough courage to confess it before however. She apparently, like me, never had a relationship in real life. I already liked her a lot from her personality (looks doesn’t matter to much). So we both accepted each other and now we are a couple for like, 2 days. She apparently trusts me and so do I. She is in her final year of high school and will be rather busy preparing for her exams, which I understand is more important than anything else right now.

[u]But here is the thing I am afraid about.[/u] What if I end up breaking it up again? I am being honest to her. We both seem to like each other and she is quite mature too and [i]so far[/i] seems to show interest in the relationship. But we haven’t talked about taking the relationship to the real life extent yet. Which I hope to, someday because for one thing, girls like her are hard to come by. Her modesty and kindness really impressed me. I like her purely because of her wonderful personality. And I’d like to take this relationship to a serious level if she wants to do the same. [u]Can you please give me some tips and advices on how and when do I approach her with this matter? Or how to improve our bonds so that she starts thinking about our relationship seriously as well? [/u] I want to take time, be patient and take this slowly but please tell me what kind of obstacles to watch out for and how do I progress so that this relationship is never broken. Because I know, if this one breaks I would really regret it a lot.

Thank you for taking your time to read my [i]rather long[i] story. I apologize if I bored you with it. I expect to include all important points as necessary in the story for better understanding of my scenario. But if you would like to ask any more questions, please ask them and I will provide them on my next post.

I am expecting your humble reply.
Thank you.