My husband and I have been married for 17 years, we have had many ups and downs but always come through them, recently our marraige has been failing and he never talks to me but I have just found out that he is very freindly with a girl from work and discovered that he has been sending ecards to her saying she is the reason he wakes up in the morning, he tingles when she is near etc. This has obviously devastated me and we have had a massive conflict but he refuses to back down and says he didnt mean it he just loves her as a very close friend and that i am blowing it out of proportion, but we both admitted that our relationship is failing and dont know how to move on from this, he says nothing has happened but you dont tell someone who is a friend that you dream about them all day long do you?
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