Texting is a great way to get some information across quickly, but women don’t like it when you use text as your primary means of having a relationship with them, and they don’t like to be asked out on a date by text. It basically means you don’t have the time to actually pick up a phone and call them. They want to hear your voice and the nuances in it.
So if you want to ask her out (or anyone out), use the phone. Text is great for, “I’m running late — sorry – should be there in 5.”
Next, it really sounds like you didn’t ask her out on a date. Or if you did, you then back tracked and invited her to hang out with a group of your friends. 😳 This isn’t going to make it seem like you’re all that interested in her. Frankly, I understand why she didn’t respond.
So, here you are today — and if you want to try control the damage, my advice is to show some chivalry and show up with some flowers. Tell her you’re sorry you didn’t see her this weekend and would she be interested in dinner (or drinks) next Saturday at seven. If she says yes, tell her you’ll pick her up at 6:45. Then do it.
Women want to know that the man really cares about them and that he’s going to make a plan and be in charge. Hope for a do-over and try it again! 😀
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