Got it. So, if you’re committed to the idea of being with someone who knows that they love you in a certain time period, and he doesn’t, then you should move on. Staying, like this, is just torturing yourself and him. 😕 However…. if you want to stay with him then you should stop pressuring him to have feelings that may or may not come in time. Not everybody gets to the same place, emotionally — or if they do, at the same time. It sounds like you have a clear idea of your expectations, and he’s not meeting them. That’s disappointing, but you have choices. You can either move on and look for someone who is more compatible, or stay and nurture the relationship, or stay and pressure him, which will lead to a break up without a lot of grace.
I hope that helps. 🙂
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