It sounds like you don’t have a lot of experience dating, and this new relationship feels a little burdensome because you want things to go a particular way, so when they don’t, you freeze up. Relax. And remember — it takes different people different amounts of time to loosen up. I think that the more dating experience you have, the more relaxed you’ll become — which is very natural. 😉 Also, you’ve only been dating each other for four months, so you’re still getting to know each other. Lots of people put too much pressure on the relationship to work out, too early. Instead, it’s a lot healthier to hang back and just see if you like each other and see if you’re comfortable together, and simply see if you want to continue dating each other. You don’t have to commit to anything and try to make it work this early in the game. In fact this may not be a match and what you’re feeling is incompatibility — not anything that’s wrong with you. 😉 And if you don’t have the same feelings he does, at the same time, that’s okay. 🙂 Rarely do people feel the same way at the same time, so try and see this guy as someone you’re dating — not a boyfriend who you might feel you have to get along with and have to do boyfriend things with. Instead, change your perspective and just try and get to know him and decide if you want to continue dating him or not. Basically, it’s going to make you feel a lot better if you take the pressure off, and just try to enjoy each day, rather than press for some perfect relationship with someone you don’t know that well yet. 😉
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