What Do I Do?

Ok here is my issue, I’ve been dating this great guy for just over a month. He is recently seperated(they were never married). They were together for 8 yrs and have 2 children together. Before we actually started dating, we were hanging out as friends, he had told me that him and his ex were still sleeping together every once in a while for booty calls(at least 1 a week). I told him there was nothing wrong with sex between friends because I’ve been there. The thing is, they have only been seperated since November and jsut over 2 weeks into our “dating” relationship he came to me and told me that he had been sleeping with his ex again and going to couples counselling with her, he also told me that it would never happen again and that he has deep feelings for me. He said the only reason he did it was because he thought she would try and take the kids away from him. So, I continue with the relationship because we get along great and have incredible chemistry and conversations with eachother. We have now slept with eachother a couple of weekends ago…it was incredible, very compatible in tht department. On Easter Monday we got to gether to talk and hang out and he taold me with tears in his eyes that he slept with his ex again on Sunday. He said she had tried caling him for a booty call, he said no, she tried talking dirty to him and getting him to do the same, he wouldn’t. Then he went to her house because she asked him to come over and listen to a letter that she had started writing to the daughter who had passed away 2 yrs ago. He said that everything was good, she didn’t come on to him right away or even after the leter was read. They were going out for a smoke and she started, he told me that she was very aggressive and wouldn’t take no for an answer.

After he told me about it, he said it was a big mistake and that he felt so guilty after and didn’t want to hurt me, but knew he had to be honest. He has now said that he will do anything to keep us together and if that includes no communication with his ex, he’ll do it. I really enjoy this man and I told him that I think he’s worth giving a shot to because he has been sooooo honest with me!!!!

Any advice?

I asked him directly if she was using him for sex because of the kids the last time and he said no….she is not that type of person, she has never denied him from seeing his kids, I know that for a fact. My message about her came of the wrong way I guess, I know her, not well but she is a very nice lady!