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Does my ex regret leaving me?

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    Chloe Nicole
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    I really need advice right now because I feel so confused about what’s happening right now. My ex and I broke up about six months ago. We were together for three years but it still ended in a breakup because he said he needed to focus on his job and he was assigned to a far place. I think maybe I was a distraction for him back then so he decided to end things and I have no choice but to accept it instead of forcing myself on him. Now he suddenly started reaching out again just when I’ve already moved on. I’ve noticed that he often likes and comments on my social media posts and sometimes he messages me just to check how I’m doing. It makes me wonder if he regrets breaking up with me or if he wants to get back together. To be honest, I still have feelings for him but I don’t want to assume right away that he wants to reconcile. I’m scared that if I let him back into my life it might just happen again (that he’ll get tired of me and leave) and I’ll end up getting hurt again. But I was really happy when I was with him. I felt very comfortable and at peace. By the way, I’m 23 and he is 25.

    Do you think I’m right that he regrets breaking up with me? Do you think he only realized my value after I was no longer in his life?

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    Abegail
    Member #382,894

    He just checked in on you and liked your post on Facebook, and then you immediately thought that maybe he regrets leaving you and has suddenly realized your worth.

    Maybe he just felt like checking in on you, or maybe he just wants to be friends again since you did share something together and you’ve both moved on already.

    Don’t jump to conclusions so you don’t end up stressing yourself out.

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    Nicole
    Member #382,906

    Maybe he realized your worth after you were gone—people often regret things later. But if you’ve already moved on, then what’s the point of thinking about it now? You seem okay already, so just focus on other things instead.

    Also, it’s still not sure if he actually wants to get back with you because he hasn’t confirmed anything yet. And don’t ask him directly, because you might misunderstand the situation and end up feeling embarrassed if you’re wrong.

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