I really need advice right now because I feel so confused about what’s happening right now. My ex and I broke up about six months ago. We were together for three years but it still ended in a breakup because he said he needed to focus on his job and he was assigned to a far place. I think maybe I was a distraction for him back then so he decided to end things and I have no choice but to accept it instead of forcing myself on him. Now he suddenly started reaching out again just when I’ve already moved on. I’ve noticed that he often likes and comments on my social media posts and sometimes he messages me just to check how I’m doing. It makes me wonder if he regrets breaking up with me or if he wants to get back together. To be honest, I still have feelings for him but I don’t want to assume right away that he wants to reconcile. I’m scared that if I let him back into my life it might just happen again (that he’ll get tired of me and leave) and I’ll end up getting hurt again. But I was really happy when I was with him. I felt very comfortable and at peace. By the way, I’m 23 and he is 25.
Do you think I’m right that he regrets breaking up with me? Do you think he only realized my value after I was no longer in his life?
