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I met him about a month ago and we hit it off right away, to tell you that he’s texted me or called me every day since and we’ve been out on about 8 dates (that have lead to just kissing), wonderful right? Well something happened this past saturday, something quite stupid as a matter of fact. We went out as a group. He came with a male friend, I came with a female friend; at the end of the evening my friend was feeling uncomfortable with the coming on his friend so my reaction was to grab her a different dancing partner out of the blue. I was drinking and wasn’t really thinking but his male friend got upset and abruptly left without even saying goodbye. I saw my dates reaction and the next day no contact whatsoever. I decided to text him first, for a change and his response was incredibly cold. Today, no contact.
I really want to move forward with him, I think were great together but I feel he’s somewhat disappointed, I can’t be sure, its mainly a feeling in my gut. Should I just back off and wait for him to contact me? Will he even contact me?

Thank you so much

[April Mașini, your AskApril]

Yes, you should sit back and see if he contacts you, or not. You’ll learn a lot about him by the way he responds and treats you. 😉 I don’t know if he’ll ever contact you again — but if he doesn’t, you’ve learned that one incident that really seems resolvable — was enough for him to break off contact with you. In life there are many more, and more serious conflicts than what you’ve described, and if he can’t work this through with you, he certainly isn’t going to be able to handle more important disputes. My advice is to be grateful to have seen this side of him so soon and to not get too invested in someone before you know things like this about him. Be disappointed, but be clear headed in your decisions. 😉

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