Because you say you’ve had bad dating experiences since you divorced, four years ago, why not go for a good one? It sounds like you’re just going to repeat that bad dating experience pattern here. This guy is married. He was married when you dated him three years ago, and he didn’t leave his wife for you. In fact, the opposite occurred. He left you for his wife. 😕 Now, you’re interested in pursuing a relationship again, and you’re wondering if he’ll leave his wife this time, when he tells you he will, but still has her on his social media as his wife. The simple answer is that he’s not available. You’ll have a much better experience looking for someone who’s single and available. I know it’s tough and it’s a lot easier to date people you already know, or have dated, because they’re familiar and sometimes less scary because they’re familiar. Well, the good stuff in life doesn’t come easy. It comes after smart dating and doing the work. So, my advice is to play the field and find someone who’s available. If this guy ever does divorce, then he’ll be available, but right now, he doesn’t look like a good bet or investment of your time. 😉 I hope that helps.
