[Sally]

Okay yeah, guys like that test the waters to see what they can get away with. Honestly, trust your gut. If it feels off, it is off.

[Sally]

A year in and still no family? That’s not nothing. You’re not asking for some big dramatic meet-the-parents moment. You just want to feel like you’re really part of his world. And right now, it kind of feels like you’re only in half of it.

If he’s not ready to let you in after all this time, maybe ask yourself if he’s building a future with you or just passing time next to you.

[Sally]

If he keeps leaving, let him.

I know it hurts. I know your heart keeps hoping this time will be different. But real love doesn’t come with all this confusion.

Block him if you have to. You don’t owe him access to you just because he remembers you when he’s lonely.

[Sally]

Yeah, no. This would totally mess with my head too.

Like, how can he say he’s fully committed but still update his profile *last week*? That’s not forgetting. That’s not boredom. That’s making a choice. You don’t go in and pick new pictures by accident.

And I get it. It feels real when you’re with him. That’s the part that keeps you stuck. He’s doing just enough to make you stay, but not enough to make you feel safe.

You’re not being extra. Wanting someone to delete the app when they’re with you is not some huge ask. It’s basic respect.

I don’t know what Jake’s doing, but I do know this— if he really meant all those sweet things, the app would already be gone.

[Author]

Posts